It’s almost here, the big moment, the one you’ve been waiting for. Your guts are churning, and everything is on the line. Your heart is pounding out of your chest, your bladder feels like it is going to burst, and you suck in massive lungfuls of air in the hopes of hanging onto your lunch. […]
It’s a funny thing how people want to be risk-takers… yet they crave the safety of being talented, of being accepted, of being right, and yet they don’t want the pressure of being expected to perform. So how do you get to be successful without being a risk-taker? You can’t have it both ways. A […]
I often hear people stressing about moving forward because they are afraid of making mistakes. They desperately want to “do it right” this time. I get it…I’ve been there too. But I’ve learned the secret.
What is pressure exactly? We start to feel pressure when we are afraid of not living up to the expectations of ourselves or others. We feel pressure when we don’t have enough time to get everything done that we think needs to get done. We feel pressure when we might not get the thing we desperately […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about success and failure lately. I’ve often talked about the idea that success isn’t just about outcomes, but I don’t know that I’ve ever heard anyone talk about failure in the same way. Success and failure are two sides of the same coin Success and failure are literally relatives to […]